We all want to be influencers. It's important to influence with a righteous moral stance. We want to effect the next generation with good morality, clarity to God and love from our hearts. Prayer is essential to the heart of God. We meet him with a kind heart. We see him with a willing teachable spirit. We want a future that God influences things. We invite him to the party. We ask him to influence.
It is very important that he be the center and forpiece of our mind. We make him important above all things, he is the influencer of our work ahead. We love him towards us as he wants to be. It is a love filled relationship and he molds us towards him.
Make him love you, be about him and his desires just so he is pleased. That is how love works. It is better to do what the King Jesus says. Follow his majesty.